After careful and prayerful consideration, I chose
to Finances as the topic to implement in my life. I am the person who runs the
finances in our home. I am the one that pays all the bills and keeps track of
what’s paid and what is still pending. A great amount of responsibility lies on
my shoulders. This isn't to say my husband doesn't know or make any financial
decisions with me, but I inform him of what’s going on, I lay it all out, give
him the facts and then we make decisions together. Since I have most of the
financial responsibility I felt that it would benefit myself and my family that
I implement all the teachings of the church regarding finances in my life.
Another reason I chose this topic was because I am currently taking a math
course in which we are required to read a book about finances. I chose to read “The
Total Money Makeover,” which has very good tips on managing finances. I felt
like the Lord was answering a lingering question I've had for some time. First off,
I had to do a little research on how we were spending our money. Second, once I
gathered all my information about our spending habits, I needed to determine
which one’s I could do away with. Third, I then set a budget. The third step
was tricky because it took about two weeks to set up a realistic budget. The
first step took about three days and the second took about two days. The last
step was not deviating from my budget. The last step was the hardest part of
the whole plan. When I hear the word budget, in my mind it sounds easy. I was
wrong, very wrong. About three weeks into the project budgeting finally got
easier. I implemented some of the “Baby Step” from the book I was reading. In
the book “The Total Money Makeover,” I learned that sometimes peer pressure is
what causes so many people to go into debt. It’s as if they are competing with
the world to have the latest and greatest gadgets. That hit home, I won’t lie.
I love upgrading to the newest iPhone. I want a MacBook. I learned that it’s
okay to want those things but getting into debt for them is never a good idea.
Working to get those things without being controlled by debt is the best way. I
feel overly blessed to be part of the Pathway program. I am thankful I've been
able to experience every single one of these classes. It’s helped me learn more
teachings of the gospel and a better understand. This class was a blessing in
my life. I can say now that I really know the First Presidency & Twelve
Apostles of the church. I have a testimony about each one of them. My testimony
and church knowledge a grown tenfold. I know this church is true, I know my
Savior lives and loves us, I know we have a living oracle of God, I know we
continue to receive modern day revelation. I know with all certainty that Heavenly
Father created the Pathway program and he had a plan for each and every one of
the students that would attend. I love my Savior and my Heavenly Father, I have
a testimony of them and I say these things in the name of Jesus Christ, amen.
Sunday, July 20, 2014
Thursday, July 17, 2014
Missionary Service
With time I have come to understand that Missionary Service is something we all as members need to do whether we are missionaries or not. We can strive to find more missionary opportunities if we prayerfully ask the Lord to place us in those circumstances. Sometimes as non-missionaries we can be more effective because we have the ability to befriend and socialize with new members or invite non-members to Family Hone Evenings and other church activities.
1. What Matters Most is What Lasts Longest
1. What Matters Most is What Lasts Longest
Elder M. Russell Ballard, October 2005, General
Conference: Saturday Morning Session,
“I believe the mission statement for mortality might
be “to build an eternal family.” Here on
this earth we strive to become part of
extended families with the ability to create and form our own part of those
families.”
2. Love – the Essence of the Gospel
President Thomas S. Monson, April 2014 General Conference:
Sunday Morning Session, https://www.lds.org/general-conference/2014/04/love-the-essence-of-the-gospel?lang=eng&query=love+the+essence+of+the+gospel
“Every day of our lives we are given opportunities to show
love and kindness to those around us. Said President Spencer W. Kimball:
“We must remember that those mortals we meet in parking lots, offices,
elevators, and elsewhere are that portion of mankind God has given us to love
and to serve. It will do us little good to speak of the general brotherhood of
mankind if we cannot regard those who are all around us as our brothers and
sisters.”
3. To My Grandchildren
President Henry B. Erying, October 2013 General Conference:
Sunday Morning Session, https://www.lds.org/general-conference/2013/10/to-my-grandchildren?lang=eng&query=Henry+B.+Eyring
“The pressures at every stage of life can tempt us to reject
or neglect calls to serve the Savior. That can put us in spiritual peril for ourselves,
our spouse, and our families. Some of those calls may seem unimportant,
but my life, and my family, was changed for the better by my
accepting a call to teach a deacons quorum. I felt the love of those deacons
for the Savior and His love for them.”
4. Are You Sleeping Through the
Restoration?
President Dieter F. Uchtdorf, April 2014 General Conference:
Priesthood Session, https://www.lds.org/general-conference/2014/04/are-you-sleeping-through-the-restoration?lang=eng&query=are+you+sleeping+through+the+restoration
“Those
who wholeheartedly turn their lives over to our Savior and serve God and
fellowman discover a richness and fullness to life that the selfish or egotistic
will never experience. The unselfish give of themselves. These may be small
gifts of charity that have a grand impact for good: a smile, a handshake, a
hug, time spent in listening, a soft word of encouragement, or a gesture of
caring. All these acts of kindness can change hearts and lives. When we take
advantage of the unlimited opportunities to love and serve our fellowmen,
including our spouse and family,
our capacity to love God and to serve others will greatly
increase.”
5. Following
Up
Elder M. Russell Ballard, April 2014, General
Conference: Sunday Morning Session, https://www.lds.org/general-conference/2014/04/following-up?lang=eng&query=following+up
“The harvest truly is plenteous, but the labourers
are few;
“Pray ye therefore the Lord of the harvest, that he
will send forth labourers into his harvest.”6
The Lord has answered that prayer in our day with
the greatest number of full-time missionaries in the history of the world. With
this new wave of faithful laborers, the Lord has given us another opportunity
to assist Him in that great harvest of souls.”
6. Becoming
a Missionary
Elder David A. Bednar, October 2005 General Conference: Priesthood Session, https://www.lds.org/general-conference/2005/10/becoming-a-missionary?lang=eng&query=missionary+work
“All of us who have received the holy priesthood bear the sacred obligation to bless the nations and families of the earth by proclaiming the gospel and inviting all to receive by proper authority the ordinances of salvation.”
7. Becoming a Missionary
Elder David A. Bednar, October 2005 General Conference: Priesthood Session, https://www.lds.org/general-conference/2005/10/becoming-a-missionary?lang=eng&query=missionary+work
“Proclaiming the gospel is not an activity in which we periodically and temporarily engage. And our labors as missionaries certainly are not confined to the short period of time devoted to full-time missionary service in our youth or in our mature years. Rather, the obligation to proclaim the restored gospel of Jesus Christ is inherent in the oath and covenant of the priesthood into which we enter.”
8. Go Ye Therefore
Sister Silvia H. Allred, October 2008 General Conference: Saturday Morning Session, https://www.lds.org/general-conference/2008/10/go-ye-therefore?lang=eng&query=missionary+work
“I don’t know if missionaries realize the far-reaching impact of their work.”
9. Go Ye Therefore
Sister Silvia H. Allred, October 2008 General Conference: Saturday Morning Session, https://www.lds.org/general-conference/2008/10/go-ye-therefore?lang=eng&query=missionary+work
“Missionary work is the lifeblood of the Church. There is no greater work, no more important work. It blesses the lives of all those who participate in it. It will continue blessing future generations.”
10. Raising The Bar
Elder L. Tom Perry, October 2007 General Conference: Priesthood Session, https://www.lds.org/general-conference/2007/10/raising-the-bar?lang=eng&query=missionary+work
“Missionary work is hard, and full-time missionaries must be in good physical condition to serve. Raising the bar to a higher physical standard could involve further physical conditioning.”
Elder David A. Bednar, October 2005 General Conference: Priesthood Session, https://www.lds.org/general-conference/2005/10/becoming-a-missionary?lang=eng&query=missionary+work
“All of us who have received the holy priesthood bear the sacred obligation to bless the nations and families of the earth by proclaiming the gospel and inviting all to receive by proper authority the ordinances of salvation.”
7. Becoming a Missionary
Elder David A. Bednar, October 2005 General Conference: Priesthood Session, https://www.lds.org/general-conference/2005/10/becoming-a-missionary?lang=eng&query=missionary+work
“Proclaiming the gospel is not an activity in which we periodically and temporarily engage. And our labors as missionaries certainly are not confined to the short period of time devoted to full-time missionary service in our youth or in our mature years. Rather, the obligation to proclaim the restored gospel of Jesus Christ is inherent in the oath and covenant of the priesthood into which we enter.”
8. Go Ye Therefore
Sister Silvia H. Allred, October 2008 General Conference: Saturday Morning Session, https://www.lds.org/general-conference/2008/10/go-ye-therefore?lang=eng&query=missionary+work
“I don’t know if missionaries realize the far-reaching impact of their work.”
9. Go Ye Therefore
Sister Silvia H. Allred, October 2008 General Conference: Saturday Morning Session, https://www.lds.org/general-conference/2008/10/go-ye-therefore?lang=eng&query=missionary+work
“Missionary work is the lifeblood of the Church. There is no greater work, no more important work. It blesses the lives of all those who participate in it. It will continue blessing future generations.”
10. Raising The Bar
Elder L. Tom Perry, October 2007 General Conference: Priesthood Session, https://www.lds.org/general-conference/2007/10/raising-the-bar?lang=eng&query=missionary+work
“Missionary work is hard, and full-time missionaries must be in good physical condition to serve. Raising the bar to a higher physical standard could involve further physical conditioning.”
Repentance
I know repentance is possible because of the Atonement of my Savior Jesus Christ. I know that true repentance is a processes and is not one that is easy. I know that when we truly repentance and abstain from doing wrong, our Father in Heaven is please and we come to know true happiness. Having repentance available helps us progresses and grow spiritually. Through repentance we come to appreciate the gospel and the commandments. Through sorrow we come to know what true happiness is.
1. Bare Up Their Burdens with Ease
1. Bare Up Their Burdens with Ease
Elder David A. Bednar, April 2014, General
Conference: Sunday Morning Session,
“Sometimes we mistakenly may believe that happiness
is the absence of a load. But bearing a load is a necessary and essential part
of the plan of happiness. Because our individual load needs to generate spiritual
traction, we should be careful to not haul around in our lives so many nice but
unnecessary things that we are distracted and diverted from the things that
truly matter most.”
2. Until We Meet Again
President Thomas S. Monson, April 2014 General Conference:
Sunday Afternoon Session, https://www.lds.org/general-conference/2014/04/until-we-meet-again?lang=eng&query=until+we+meet+again
“We face many serious challenges in the world today, but I
assure you that our Heavenly Father is mindful of us. He will guide and bless
us as we put our faith and trust in Him and will see us through whatever
difficulties come our way.”
3. The
Key to Spiritual Protection
President
Boyd K. Packer, October 2013 General Conference: Saturday Afternoon Session, https://www.lds.org/general-conference/2013/10/the-key-to-spiritual-protection?lang=eng&query=the+key+to+spiritual+protection
“We live in perilous times;
nevertheless, we can find hope and peace for ourselves and for our families.
Those living in sorrow, despairing at
the possibility of children being rescued from where the world has taken them,
must never give up. “Be not afraid, only believe.” Righteousness is more powerful than
wickedness.”
4. The
Divine Gift Of Repentance
Elder D. Todd Christofferson, October 2011 General Conference: Saturday Afternoon Session, https://www.lds.org/general-conference/2011/10/the-divine-gift-of-repentance?lang=eng&query=repentance
“Without repentance, there is no real progress or improvement in life. Pretending there is no sin does not lessen its burden and pain. Suffering for sin does not by itself change anything for the better.”
Elder D. Todd Christofferson, October 2011 General Conference: Saturday Afternoon Session, https://www.lds.org/general-conference/2011/10/the-divine-gift-of-repentance?lang=eng&query=repentance
“Without repentance, there is no real progress or improvement in life. Pretending there is no sin does not lessen its burden and pain. Suffering for sin does not by itself change anything for the better.”
5. The
Divine Gift Of Repentance
Elder
D. Todd Christofferson, October 2011 General Conference: Saturday Afternoon
Session, https://www.lds.org/general-conference/2011/10/the-divine-gift-of-repentance?lang=eng&query=repentance
“Repentance exists
as an option only because of the Atonement of Jesus Christ. It is His infinite
sacrifice that “bringeth about means unto men that they may have faith unto repentance” (Alma 34:15). Repentance is
the necessary condition, and the grace of Christ is the power by which “mercy
can satisfy the demands of justice”
6. Repentance
and Conversion
Elder Russell M. Nelson, April 2007
General Conference: Sunday Afternoon Session, https://www.lds.org/general-conference/2007/04/repentance-and-conversion?lang=eng&query=repentance
“The fruits of repentance are
sweet. Repentance is conversion!”
7. Repentance
and Conversion
Elder Russell M. Nelson, April 2007
General Conference: Sunday Afternoon Session, https://www.lds.org/general-conference/2007/04/repentance-and-conversion?lang=eng&query=repentance
“The doctrine of repentance is
as old as the gospel itself.”
8. The
Path to Peace and Joy
Elder Richard G. Scott, October 2000
General Conference: Saturday Afternoon Session, https://www.lds.org/general-conference/2000/10/the-path-to-peace-and-joy?lang=eng&query=repentance
“Full repentance results
in forgiveness with spiritual renewal.”
9. The
Path to Peace and Joy
Elder Richard G. Scott, October 2000
General Conference: Saturday Afternoon Session, https://www.lds.org/general-conference/2000/10/the-path-to-peace-and-joy?lang=eng&query=repentance
“Are you taking full advantage of the
redeeming power of repentance in
your life so that you can have greater peace and joy? Feelings of turmoil and
despondency often signal a need for repentance. Also the lack of the spiritual direction
you seek in your life could result from broken laws. If needed, full repentance will
put your life together.”
10. The
Atonement, Repentance, and Dirty Linen
Elder Lynn A. Mickelsen, October 2003
General Conference: Saturday Morning Session,
https://www.lds.org/general-conference/2003/10/the-atonement-repentance-and-dirty-linen?lang=eng&query=repentance
“Washing dirty linen and repentance are
intrinsically linked. Sin brings an uncleanliness before the Lord that must be
reconciled. There is, however, a time and a place for confession and asking
forgiveness.”
Finances
I believe finances are essential for our spiritual and emotional well being. I understand more fully why the church requires its members to seek to be self-sufficient/reliant. Being financially responsible is a commandments, the Lord requires that His children to honor their debts and live within their means. Learning to have financial self restraint helps us slowly learn to live the Law of Consecration. It also prepares the members when they are serving missions.
1. In Any Circumstances
President Dieter F. Uchtdorf, April 2014 General Conference: Sunday Morning Session, https://www.lds.org/general-conference/2014/04/grateful-in-any-circumstances?lang=eng
“When we are grateful to God in our circumstances, we can experience gentle peace in the midst of tribulation. In grief, we can still lift up our hearts in praise. In pain, we can glory in Christ’s Atonement. In the cold of bitter sorrow, we can experience the closeness and warmth of heaven’s embrace.”
2. In Any Circumstances
President Dieter F. Uchtdorf, April 2014 General Conference: Sunday Morning Session, https://www.lds.org/general-conference/2014/04/grateful-in-any-circumstances?lang=eng
“We sometimes think that being grateful is what we do after our problems are solved, but how terribly shortsighted that is. How much of life do we miss by waiting to see the rainbow before thanking God that there is rain?
Being grateful in times of distress does not mean that we are pleased with our circumstances. It does mean that through the eyes of faith we look beyond our present-day challenges.
This is not a gratitude of the lips but of the soul. It is a gratitude that heals the heart and expands the mind.”
3. Forget me not
President Dieter F. Uchtdorf, October 2011 General Relief Society Meeting, https://www.lds.org/general-conference/2011/10/forget-me-not?lang=eng&query=forget+me+not
“So many people today are waiting for their own golden ticket—the ticket that they believe holds the key to the happiness they have always dreamed about. For some, the golden ticket may be a perfect marriage; for others, a magazine-cover home or perhaps freedom from stress or worry.
There is nothing wrong with righteous yearnings—we hope and seek after things that are “virtuous, lovely, or of good report or praiseworthy.”4 The problem comes when we put our happiness on hold as we wait for some future event—our golden ticket—to appear.”
4. Earthly Debts, Heavenly Debts
Elder Joseph B. Wirthlin, April 2004 General Conference: Saturday Afternoon Session, https://www.lds.org/general-conference/2004/04/earthly-debts-heavenly-debts?lang=eng&query=finances
“Others are in financial bondage because they have not learned to discipline themselves and control their impulses to spend. Consequently, they have made unwise financial choices.”
5. Earthly Debts, Heavenly Debts
Elder Joseph B. Wirthlin, April 2004 General Conference: Saturday Afternoon Session, https://www.lds.org/general-conference/2004/04/earthly-debts-heavenly-debts?lang=eng&query=finances
“Those who live safely within their means know how much money comes in each month, and even though it is difficult, they discipline themselves to spend less than that amount.”
6. The Lord’s Richest Blessings
Elder Karl B. Pratt, April 2011 General Conference: Sunday Afternoon Session, https://www.lds.org/general-conference/2011/04/the-lords-richest-blessings?lang=eng&query=finances
“This is what the Lord expects of all His people. He expects us to pay tithing not from our abundance nor from the “leftovers” of the family budget but, as He commanded anciently, from the “firstlings” of our income, be it scarce or abounding.”
7. The Lord’s Richest Blessings
Elder Karl B. Pratt, April 2011 General Conference: Sunday Afternoon Session, https://www.lds.org/general-conference/2011/04/the-lords-richest-blessings?lang=eng&query=finances
“I testify that He fulfills His promises, and if we faithfully pay our tithing, we will not lack for the necessities of life, but He does not promise wealth. Money and bank accounts are not His richest blessings.”
8. Couple Missionaries: A Time to Serve
Elder Robert D. Hales, April 2001 General Conference: Saturday Afternoon Session, https://www.lds.org/general-conference/2001/04/couple-missionaries-a-time-to-serve?lang=eng&query=finances
“To younger couples with children still at home, I urge you now to decide to serve in your later years and to plan and prepare so you are financially, physically, and spiritually able.”
9. Couple Missionaries: A Time to Serve
Elder Robert D. Hales, April 2001 General Conference: Saturday Afternoon Session, https://www.lds.org/general-conference/2001/04/couple-missionaries-a-time-to-serve?lang=eng&query=finances
“Sit down with your companion, make an inventory of your health, financial resources, and unique gifts and talents. Then, if all is in order, go to your bishop and say, “We’re ready.” You may feel it is improper to approach your bishop or branch president about your desires to serve a mission.”
10. Providing for Our Needs
Elder M. Russell Ballard, April 1981 General Conference: Welfare Session, https://www.lds.org/general-conference/1981/04/providing-for-our-needs?lang=eng&query=finances
“Brothers and sisters, what can we do to improve our family finances? May I suggest three important keys that will help us. They are attitude, planning, and self-discipline.”
1. In Any Circumstances
President Dieter F. Uchtdorf, April 2014 General Conference: Sunday Morning Session, https://www.lds.org/general-conference/2014/04/grateful-in-any-circumstances?lang=eng
“When we are grateful to God in our circumstances, we can experience gentle peace in the midst of tribulation. In grief, we can still lift up our hearts in praise. In pain, we can glory in Christ’s Atonement. In the cold of bitter sorrow, we can experience the closeness and warmth of heaven’s embrace.”
2. In Any Circumstances
President Dieter F. Uchtdorf, April 2014 General Conference: Sunday Morning Session, https://www.lds.org/general-conference/2014/04/grateful-in-any-circumstances?lang=eng
“We sometimes think that being grateful is what we do after our problems are solved, but how terribly shortsighted that is. How much of life do we miss by waiting to see the rainbow before thanking God that there is rain?
Being grateful in times of distress does not mean that we are pleased with our circumstances. It does mean that through the eyes of faith we look beyond our present-day challenges.
This is not a gratitude of the lips but of the soul. It is a gratitude that heals the heart and expands the mind.”
3. Forget me not
President Dieter F. Uchtdorf, October 2011 General Relief Society Meeting, https://www.lds.org/general-conference/2011/10/forget-me-not?lang=eng&query=forget+me+not
“So many people today are waiting for their own golden ticket—the ticket that they believe holds the key to the happiness they have always dreamed about. For some, the golden ticket may be a perfect marriage; for others, a magazine-cover home or perhaps freedom from stress or worry.
There is nothing wrong with righteous yearnings—we hope and seek after things that are “virtuous, lovely, or of good report or praiseworthy.”4 The problem comes when we put our happiness on hold as we wait for some future event—our golden ticket—to appear.”
4. Earthly Debts, Heavenly Debts
Elder Joseph B. Wirthlin, April 2004 General Conference: Saturday Afternoon Session, https://www.lds.org/general-conference/2004/04/earthly-debts-heavenly-debts?lang=eng&query=finances
“Others are in financial bondage because they have not learned to discipline themselves and control their impulses to spend. Consequently, they have made unwise financial choices.”
5. Earthly Debts, Heavenly Debts
Elder Joseph B. Wirthlin, April 2004 General Conference: Saturday Afternoon Session, https://www.lds.org/general-conference/2004/04/earthly-debts-heavenly-debts?lang=eng&query=finances
“Those who live safely within their means know how much money comes in each month, and even though it is difficult, they discipline themselves to spend less than that amount.”
6. The Lord’s Richest Blessings
Elder Karl B. Pratt, April 2011 General Conference: Sunday Afternoon Session, https://www.lds.org/general-conference/2011/04/the-lords-richest-blessings?lang=eng&query=finances
“This is what the Lord expects of all His people. He expects us to pay tithing not from our abundance nor from the “leftovers” of the family budget but, as He commanded anciently, from the “firstlings” of our income, be it scarce or abounding.”
7. The Lord’s Richest Blessings
Elder Karl B. Pratt, April 2011 General Conference: Sunday Afternoon Session, https://www.lds.org/general-conference/2011/04/the-lords-richest-blessings?lang=eng&query=finances
“I testify that He fulfills His promises, and if we faithfully pay our tithing, we will not lack for the necessities of life, but He does not promise wealth. Money and bank accounts are not His richest blessings.”
8. Couple Missionaries: A Time to Serve
Elder Robert D. Hales, April 2001 General Conference: Saturday Afternoon Session, https://www.lds.org/general-conference/2001/04/couple-missionaries-a-time-to-serve?lang=eng&query=finances
“To younger couples with children still at home, I urge you now to decide to serve in your later years and to plan and prepare so you are financially, physically, and spiritually able.”
9. Couple Missionaries: A Time to Serve
Elder Robert D. Hales, April 2001 General Conference: Saturday Afternoon Session, https://www.lds.org/general-conference/2001/04/couple-missionaries-a-time-to-serve?lang=eng&query=finances
“Sit down with your companion, make an inventory of your health, financial resources, and unique gifts and talents. Then, if all is in order, go to your bishop and say, “We’re ready.” You may feel it is improper to approach your bishop or branch president about your desires to serve a mission.”
10. Providing for Our Needs
Elder M. Russell Ballard, April 1981 General Conference: Welfare Session, https://www.lds.org/general-conference/1981/04/providing-for-our-needs?lang=eng&query=finances
“Brothers and sisters, what can we do to improve our family finances? May I suggest three important keys that will help us. They are attitude, planning, and self-discipline.”
Having and/or Raising Children
Having had the opportunity to bare children gives me a great deep appreciate for children. I know they are innocent Children of God who have chosen me to be their Mother and help them return with Heavenly Father. I as a Mother have great responsibility to raise them in the ways of the Lord, along with my husband. I know that every child deserves to have a legally wedded father and mother and more importantly an eternal family. They are entitled to be born under the convent of a temple marriage. I know that I along with my husband will be the biggest examples my children will have and by following the gospel and teaching them the gospel. They too, can grow up to be an example for their children as well.
1. LDS Women Are Incredible!
1. LDS Women Are Incredible!
Elder Quentin L. Cook, April 2011, General
Conference: Saturday Morning Session, https://www.lds.org/general-conference/2011/04/lds-women-are-incredible?lang=eng&query=lds+women+are+incredible
“Our women are not incredible
because they have managed to avoid the difficulties of life – quite the
opposite. They are incredible because of the way they face the trials of life.”
2. When
You Save a Girl, You Save Generations
Sister Mary N. Cook, April 2013, General Young Women
Meeting,
“Participating in family history and temple work will
likewise weave your hearts together and give your ancestors the opportunity of
eternal life.”
3. We
Are Daughters of Our Heavenly Father
Sister Elaine S. Dalton, April 2013, General
Conference: Saturday Morning Session,
“Mothers, your relationship with your daughter is of
paramount importance, and so is your example.”
4. Protect
the Children
Elder Dallin H. Oaks, October 2012 General
Conference: Saturday Afternoon Session,
“Of utmost importance to the well-being of children
is whether their parents were married, the nature and duration of the marriage,
and, more broadly, the culture and expectations of marriage and child care
where they live. Two scholars of the family explain: “Throughout history,
marriage has first and foremost been an institution for procreation and raising
children. It has provided the cultural tie that seeks to connect the father to
his children by binding him to the mother of his children. Yet in recent times,
children have increasingly been pushed from center stage.”
5. Our
Duty to God: The Mission of Parents and Leaders to the Rising Generation
Elder Robert D. Hales, April 2010 General
Conference: Saturday Afternoon Session,
“For all of us, doing our duty to God as parents and
leaders begins with leading by example – consistently and diligently living
gospel principles at home. This takes daily determination and diligence.”
6. Our
Duty to God: The Mission of Parents and Leaders to the Rising Generation
Elder Robert D. Hales, April 2010 General
Conference: Saturday Afternoon Session,
“Besides showing youth the way by example, we lead
them by understanding their hearts and walking alongside them on the gospel
path. To truly understand their hearts, we must do more than just be in the
same room or attend the same family and Church activities. We must plan and
take advantage of teaching moments that make a deep and lasting impression upon
their minds and hearts.”
7. The
Keys and Authority of the Priesthood
Elder Dallin H. Oaks, April 2014 General Conference:
Priesthood Session,
“In that notable address, President Smith said again
and again that women have been given authority. To the women he said, “You can
speak with authority, because the Lord has placed authority upon you.” He also
said that the Relief Society “[has] been given power and authority to do a
great many things. The work which they do is done by divine authority.” And, of
course, the Church work done by women or men, whether in the temple or in the
wards or branches, is done under the direction of those who hold priesthood
keys. Thus, speaking of the Relief Society, President Smith explained, “[The
Lord] has given to them this great organization where they have authority to
serve under the directions of the bishops of the wards … , looking after the
interest of our people both spiritually and temporally.”
8. Children
Elder Neil A. Andersen, October 2011 General Conference: Saturday Afternoon Session, https://www.lds.org/general-conference/2011/10/children?lang=eng&query=children
“We express deep gratitude for the enormous faith shown by husbands and wives (especially our wives) in their willingness to have children.”
9. Children
Elder Neil A. Andersen, October 2011 General Conference: Saturday Afternoon Session, https://www.lds.org/general-conference/2011/10/children?lang=eng&query=children
“When to have a child and how many children to have are private decisions to be made between a husband and wife and the Lord. These are sacred decisions—decisions that should be made with sincere prayer and acted on with great faith.”
10. Children
Elder Boyd K. Packer, October 2002 General Conference: Saturday Morning Session, https://www.lds.org/general-conference/2002/04/children?lang=eng&query=children
“Children are the past, the present, and the future all blended into one. They are consummately precious. Every time a child is born, the world is renewed in innocence.”
Elder Neil A. Andersen, October 2011 General Conference: Saturday Afternoon Session, https://www.lds.org/general-conference/2011/10/children?lang=eng&query=children
“We express deep gratitude for the enormous faith shown by husbands and wives (especially our wives) in their willingness to have children.”
9. Children
Elder Neil A. Andersen, October 2011 General Conference: Saturday Afternoon Session, https://www.lds.org/general-conference/2011/10/children?lang=eng&query=children
“When to have a child and how many children to have are private decisions to be made between a husband and wife and the Lord. These are sacred decisions—decisions that should be made with sincere prayer and acted on with great faith.”
10. Children
Elder Boyd K. Packer, October 2002 General Conference: Saturday Morning Session, https://www.lds.org/general-conference/2002/04/children?lang=eng&query=children
“Children are the past, the present, and the future all blended into one. They are consummately precious. Every time a child is born, the world is renewed in innocence.”
Marriage
I believe that marriage is ordained of God and is essential to the Lord's plan. I know that the only way a marriage can endure and be happy is with God being the center of it. Marriage needs nurturing for it to continue to blossom. Complete fidelity and monogamy is what the Lord requires a husband and wife to follow when they marry. A marriage is equal, man nor woman is to dominate the marriage. The love between husband and wife sets the tone for what kind of family and stability their children will have.
1. Marriage: Watch and Learn
1. Marriage: Watch and Learn
Elder L. Whitney Clayton, April 2013, General
Conference: Sunday Morning Session, https://www.lds.org/general-conference/2013/04/marriage-watch-and-learn?lang=eng&query=marriage
“First, I have observed that in the happiest
marriages both the husband and wife consider their relationship to be a pearl
beyond price, a treasure of infinite worth.”
2. Marriage:
Watch and Learn
Elder L. Whitney Clayton, April 2013, General
Conference: Sunday Morning Session, https://www.lds.org/general-conference/2013/04/marriage-watch-and-learn?lang=eng&query=marriage
“Their dinner hour and the family time that follows
become the center of their day and the object of their best efforts. They turn off electronics and forgo personal
entertainment in order to help with household duties.”
3. For
Peace At Home
Elder Richard G. Scott, April 2013, General
Conference: Saturday Afternoon Session, https://www.lds.org/general-conference/2013/04/for-peace-at-home?lang=eng&query=for+peace+at+home
“Be certain that every decision you make, whether temporal or spiritual, is conditioned on
what the Savior would have you do. When He is the center of your home, there is
peace and serenity. There is a spirit of assurance that pervades the home, and
it is felt by all who dwell there.”
4. For
Peace At Home
Elder Richard G. Scott, April 2013, General
Conference: Saturday Afternoon Session, https://www.lds.org/general-conference/2013/04/for-peace-at-home?lang=eng&query=for+peace+at+home
“The prophetic counsel to have daily personal
and family prayer, daily personal and family scripture study, and weekly family
home evening are the essential, weight-bearing beams in the construction of a
Christ-centered home. Without these regular practices it will be difficult to
find the desired and much-needed peace and refuge from the world”
5. The Eternal Blessings of Marriage
Elder Richard G. Scott, April 2011, General Conference:
Saturday Afternoon Session, https://www.lds.org/general-conference/2011/04/the-eternal-blessings-of-marriage?lang=eng&query=eternal+blessings+of+marriage
“Pure love is an
incomparable, potent power for good. Righteous love is the foundation of a
successful marriage. It is the primary cause of contented, well-developed
children. Who can justly measure the righteous influence of a mother’s love?
What enduring fruits result from the seeds of truth that a mother carefully
plants and lovingly cultivates in the fertile soil of a child’s trusting mind
and heart? As a mother you have been given divine instincts to help you sense
your child’s special talents and unique capacities. With your husband you can
nurture, strengthen, and cause those traits to flower.”
6. That The Lost Maybe Found
Elder M. Russell Ballard, April 2012, General Conference:
Sunday Afternoon Session, https://www.lds.org/general-conference/2012/04/that-the-lost-may-be-found?lang=eng&query=that+the+lost+maybe+found
“The Church stands as an example of heart turning and as a
catalyst for good in the world. Among Church members who are married in the
temple and who regularly attend Sunday meetings, the divorce rate is
significantly less than that of the world, and families remain closer and are
in more frequent communication. The health in our families is better, and we
live several years longer than the population average. We contribute more
financial resources and more service per capita to those in need, and we are
more likely to seek higher education. I point out these things not to boast but
to testify that life is better (and much happier) as hearts turn toward family
and as families live in the light of the gospel of Christ.”
7. Nurturing
Marriage
Elder Russell M. Nelson, April 2006 General Conference: Saturday Afternoon Session, https://www.lds.org/general-conference/2006/04/nurturing-marriage?lang=eng&query=marriage
“Marriage brings greater possibilities for happiness than does any other human relationship. Yet some married couples fall short of their full potential. They let their romance become rusty, take each other for granted, allow other interests or clouds of neglect to obscure the vision of what their marriage really could be. Marriages would be happier if nurtured more carefully.”
8. Nurturing Marriage
Elder Russell M. Nelson, April 2006 General Conference: Saturday Afternoon Session, https://www.lds.org/general-conference/2006/04/nurturing-marriage?lang=eng&query=marriage
“Marriage was intended by the Lord to endure beyond physical death. His plan offers eternal perpetuation of the family in the kingdom of God.”
9. Divorce
Elder Dallin H. Oaks, April 2007 General Conference: Sunday Morning Session, https://www.lds.org/general-conference/2007/04/divorce?lang=eng&query=marriage
“Unfortunately, under current no-fault divorce laws, it can be easier to sever a marriage relationship with an unwanted spouse than an employment relationship with an unwanted employee. Some even refer to a first marriage as a “starter marriage,” like a small home one uses for a while before moving on.”
10. Divorce
Elder Dallin H. Oaks, April 2007 General Conference: Sunday Morning Session, https://www.lds.org/general-conference/2007/04/divorce?lang=eng&query=marriage
“I strongly urge you and those who advise you to face up to the reality that for most marriage problems, the remedy is not divorce but repentance. Often the cause is not incompatibility but selfishness. The first step is not separation but reformation. Divorce is not an all-purpose solution, and it often creates long-term heartache.”
Elder Russell M. Nelson, April 2006 General Conference: Saturday Afternoon Session, https://www.lds.org/general-conference/2006/04/nurturing-marriage?lang=eng&query=marriage
“Marriage brings greater possibilities for happiness than does any other human relationship. Yet some married couples fall short of their full potential. They let their romance become rusty, take each other for granted, allow other interests or clouds of neglect to obscure the vision of what their marriage really could be. Marriages would be happier if nurtured more carefully.”
8. Nurturing Marriage
Elder Russell M. Nelson, April 2006 General Conference: Saturday Afternoon Session, https://www.lds.org/general-conference/2006/04/nurturing-marriage?lang=eng&query=marriage
“Marriage was intended by the Lord to endure beyond physical death. His plan offers eternal perpetuation of the family in the kingdom of God.”
9. Divorce
Elder Dallin H. Oaks, April 2007 General Conference: Sunday Morning Session, https://www.lds.org/general-conference/2007/04/divorce?lang=eng&query=marriage
“Unfortunately, under current no-fault divorce laws, it can be easier to sever a marriage relationship with an unwanted spouse than an employment relationship with an unwanted employee. Some even refer to a first marriage as a “starter marriage,” like a small home one uses for a while before moving on.”
10. Divorce
Elder Dallin H. Oaks, April 2007 General Conference: Sunday Morning Session, https://www.lds.org/general-conference/2007/04/divorce?lang=eng&query=marriage
“I strongly urge you and those who advise you to face up to the reality that for most marriage problems, the remedy is not divorce but repentance. Often the cause is not incompatibility but selfishness. The first step is not separation but reformation. Divorce is not an all-purpose solution, and it often creates long-term heartache.”
Pornography
I know that Pornography is one of the most vile and destructive addiction a person can have. It can cause for the Holy Ghost to remove itself completely from a person. Its effective are lasting and can leave an individual feeling helpless and hopeless. Pornography can sometimes destroy a marriage and children beyond repair. Pornography destroys the mind and it's images are almost impossible to be removed. Teaching our children, specially our young men to stay away from the filth that is Pornography can change future marriage. As parents, we should not allow filth to enter our homes. Following the commandments and doing the spiritual things required of us can help keep Satan away from our homes.
1. We Believe in Being Chaste
1. We Believe in Being Chaste
Elder David A. Bednar, April 2013, General Conference:
Saturday Afternoon Session,
“The power of procreation is spiritually
significant. Misuse of this power subverts the purposes of the Father’s plan
and of our mortal existence.”
2. We
Believe in Being Chaste
Elder David A. Bednar, April 2013, General
Conference: Saturday Afternoon Session,
“That is the test. Every appetite, desire, propensity, and impulse of the natural man
may be overcome by and through the Atonement of Jesus Christ.”
3. The
Atonement, Repentance, and Dirty Linen
Elder Lynn A. Mickelsen, October 2003 General Conference: Saturday Morning Session, https://www.lds.org/general-conference/2003/10/the-atonement-repentance-and-dirty-linen?lang=eng&query=repentance
“Another side of exposing dirty linen is the carnal, insatiable appetite that some have to expose the faults of others.”
4. Pornography
Elder Dallin H. Oaks, April 2005 General Conference: Priesthood Session, https://www.lds.org/general-conference/2005/04/pornography?lang=eng&query=pornography+quotes
“Some involved in pornography apparently minimize its seriousness and continue to exercise the priesthood of God because they think no one will know of their involvement. But the user knows, brethren, and so does the Lord.”
5. Pornography
Elder Dallin H. Oaks, April 2005 General Conference: Priesthood Session, https://www.lds.org/general-conference/2005/04/pornography?lang=eng&query=pornography+quotes
“Pornography produces fantasies that destroy spirituality.”
6. Protect from Pornography – A Christ – Focused Home
Sister Linda L. Reeves, April 2014 General Conference: Saturday Morning Session, https://www.lds.org/general-conference/2014/04/protection-from-pornography-a-christ-focused-home?lang=eng&query=Pornography
“We as parents and leaders need to counsel with our children and youth on an ongoing basis, listening with love and understanding. They need to know the dangers of pornography and how it overtakes lives, causing loss of the Spirit, distorted feelings, deceit, damaged relationships, loss of self-control, and nearly total consumption of time, thought, and energy.”
7. Protect from Pornography – A Christ – Focused Home
Sister Linda L. Reeves, April 2014 General Conference: Saturday Morning Session, https://www.lds.org/general-conference/2014/04/protection-from-pornography-a-christ-focused-home?lang=eng&query=Pornography
“President Spencer W. Kimball taught that in marriage, “the spouse … becomes preeminent in the life of the husband or wife, and … [no] other interest [or] person [or] thing shall ever take precedence over the companion spouse. …”
8. To Acquire Spiritual Guidance
Elder Richard G. Scott, October 2009 General Conference: Saturday Morning Session, https://www.lds.org/general-conference/2009/10/to-acquire-spiritual-guidance?lang=eng&query=Pornography
“The onslaught of pornography in all of its vicious, corroding, destructive forms has caused great grief, suffering, heartache, and destroyed marriages. It is one of the most damning influences on earth. Whether it be through the printed page, movies, television, obscene lyrics, vulgarities on the telephone, or flickering personal computer screen, pornography is overpoweringly addictive and severely damaging.”
9. To Acquire Spiritual Guidance
Elder Richard G. Scott, October 2009 General Conference: Saturday Morning Session, https://www.lds.org/general-conference/2009/10/to-acquire-spiritual-guidance?lang=eng&query=Pornography
“Sin is addictive; self-degenerating; conducive to other strains of corruption; deadening to spirituality, conscience, and reason; blinding to reality; contagious; destructive to mind, body, and spirit. Sin is spiritually corrosive. Unrestrained it becomes all-consuming. It is overcome by repentance and righteousness.”
10. Cleansing the Inner Vessel
Elder Boyd K. Packer, October 2010 General Conference: Sunday Morning Session, https://www.lds.org/general-conference/2010/10/cleansing-the-inner-vessel?lang=eng&query=Pornography
“Strangely enough, it may be that the simplest and most powerful prevention and cure for pornography, or any unclean act, is to ignore and avoid it. Delete from the mind any unworthy thought that tries to take root. Once you have decided to remain clean, you are asserting your God-given agency. And then, as President Smith counseled, “Don’t look back.”
Elder Lynn A. Mickelsen, October 2003 General Conference: Saturday Morning Session, https://www.lds.org/general-conference/2003/10/the-atonement-repentance-and-dirty-linen?lang=eng&query=repentance
“Another side of exposing dirty linen is the carnal, insatiable appetite that some have to expose the faults of others.”
4. Pornography
Elder Dallin H. Oaks, April 2005 General Conference: Priesthood Session, https://www.lds.org/general-conference/2005/04/pornography?lang=eng&query=pornography+quotes
“Some involved in pornography apparently minimize its seriousness and continue to exercise the priesthood of God because they think no one will know of their involvement. But the user knows, brethren, and so does the Lord.”
5. Pornography
Elder Dallin H. Oaks, April 2005 General Conference: Priesthood Session, https://www.lds.org/general-conference/2005/04/pornography?lang=eng&query=pornography+quotes
“Pornography produces fantasies that destroy spirituality.”
6. Protect from Pornography – A Christ – Focused Home
Sister Linda L. Reeves, April 2014 General Conference: Saturday Morning Session, https://www.lds.org/general-conference/2014/04/protection-from-pornography-a-christ-focused-home?lang=eng&query=Pornography
“We as parents and leaders need to counsel with our children and youth on an ongoing basis, listening with love and understanding. They need to know the dangers of pornography and how it overtakes lives, causing loss of the Spirit, distorted feelings, deceit, damaged relationships, loss of self-control, and nearly total consumption of time, thought, and energy.”
7. Protect from Pornography – A Christ – Focused Home
Sister Linda L. Reeves, April 2014 General Conference: Saturday Morning Session, https://www.lds.org/general-conference/2014/04/protection-from-pornography-a-christ-focused-home?lang=eng&query=Pornography
“President Spencer W. Kimball taught that in marriage, “the spouse … becomes preeminent in the life of the husband or wife, and … [no] other interest [or] person [or] thing shall ever take precedence over the companion spouse. …”
8. To Acquire Spiritual Guidance
Elder Richard G. Scott, October 2009 General Conference: Saturday Morning Session, https://www.lds.org/general-conference/2009/10/to-acquire-spiritual-guidance?lang=eng&query=Pornography
“The onslaught of pornography in all of its vicious, corroding, destructive forms has caused great grief, suffering, heartache, and destroyed marriages. It is one of the most damning influences on earth. Whether it be through the printed page, movies, television, obscene lyrics, vulgarities on the telephone, or flickering personal computer screen, pornography is overpoweringly addictive and severely damaging.”
9. To Acquire Spiritual Guidance
Elder Richard G. Scott, October 2009 General Conference: Saturday Morning Session, https://www.lds.org/general-conference/2009/10/to-acquire-spiritual-guidance?lang=eng&query=Pornography
“Sin is addictive; self-degenerating; conducive to other strains of corruption; deadening to spirituality, conscience, and reason; blinding to reality; contagious; destructive to mind, body, and spirit. Sin is spiritually corrosive. Unrestrained it becomes all-consuming. It is overcome by repentance and righteousness.”
10. Cleansing the Inner Vessel
Elder Boyd K. Packer, October 2010 General Conference: Sunday Morning Session, https://www.lds.org/general-conference/2010/10/cleansing-the-inner-vessel?lang=eng&query=Pornography
“Strangely enough, it may be that the simplest and most powerful prevention and cure for pornography, or any unclean act, is to ignore and avoid it. Delete from the mind any unworthy thought that tries to take root. Once you have decided to remain clean, you are asserting your God-given agency. And then, as President Smith counseled, “Don’t look back.”
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